Monday, July 27, 2009

Is it possible to leave somebody u love a lot just b/c you think u're too different??? Help me!!!?

I met him 8 months ago while working at another city. I had to leave but we planed that as soon as I graduate I'll move there and start grad school. It was a long distance relationship but we managed to keep it..for awhile. Some time ago he started saying he loved me more than anything but is affraid that if we stay together we'll end up hurting each other b/c we want different things from life. I just dont see how,if we love each other, wouldn't we make it work? He's ready to settle down but that's his first relationship and he's affraid he might be making a mistake. So he stopped calling as often, saying that he didnt want to break up but wanted to see if he could live without talking to me. If not, am the one..wtf?? I told him that's not how u get to know if someone's the one and broke up with him. We haven't spoken in weeks %26amp; I know he wont call unless he's sure I'm what he wants. Is he just full of s**t? If he loved me wouldn't he try to work things out? Do u think he'll call me?

Is it possible to leave somebody u love a lot just b/c you think u're too different??? Help me!!!?
I have a friend who meet a guy who is nearly 40. He is always ready to be a good bf, but never had in mind about marry.





He might not be ready. Love is about giving and not asking for return. If you think that by move in with him, mean you love him. Look at the other view as you force him to move in with you. Do you still think that you love him?





Give him some space, and love will grow.


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