I have to leave fiance in a week; he broke up with me and asked me to leave b/c he thinks we are incompatible.

I'm looking for support groups in Connecticut to help me deal with this. I'm devastated and ready to give up on everything. He was the love of my life for four years. Can anyone from Connecticut refer me to a support group ASAP?

I have to leave fiance in a week; he broke up with me and asked me to leave b/c he thinks we are incompatible.
I am not sure of any support groups in Conn. but I am in Georgia check the yellow pages. You may be able to just go to a counselor, or try the women's shelter they may have resources for women in your situation, they are not just limited to domestic violence. Or try a local church..with that being said, I can only imagine how hurt you must be, but don't give up on your life, it was his loss, and you should at this as a blessing in disguise, you saw what kind of an a**hole he was BEFORE you married him and wasted your life with him. It is NOT the end of the world, believe me we have all been rejected and hurt at some point in our lives. DON'T give up on YOU, start putting the pieces of your life together and start new. It's easier said than done, but it is not the end you will heal. He is not worth you giving up on everything, because after its over (if you are referring to suicide) he will move on with his life, just like he is doing now. The world does not stop when someone dies, again he is not worth it. Good luck.
Reply:if you are looking for some one who will agree and say poor you, I am sure they are there. But why are you not doing a victory dance and thanking god for not making a mistake that in 10 years from now with 2 kid you hear the same statement, The guy tried to be Honourable and do the right thing and you are devastated, , get a grip, and take charge of your life and stop looking to others to supply all your emotional needs look in a mirror and see the best friend you will ever meet
Reply:I dont live in connecticut but i am sure if you check the yellow pages you will find some gtoups that will help you cope with seperation, there are always woman's support groups.





Good Luck!