Was this RUDE of him... b/c I think so?

So I went on a date with a guy... and I have VERY blonde hair almost White hair- I was a Stylist for a number of years and my hair has been every color- so the ends are FRIED! The only thing I can do is cut it and I won't until it grows a bit more... so I do my very best to make it look shiny with products....





Anyways- I went on a date and my date picked up my hair and said "What type of shampoo do you use??" Maybe its ME... but doesn't that sound RUDE.. or maybe I am overly sensitive about my fried hair!


Which do u think???

Was this RUDE of him... b/c I think so?
Well if he knew ANYTHING about hair he would know that conditioner is basically the thing to repair it. I really dont think that he meant any harm , sometimes people say stuff without realizing that it can be offensive. I don't think you should be angry it's just the type of thing where we know what our flaws are and we get overly defensive it's whatever people do it all the time!
Reply:It's depends on the tone he used when he said that.
Reply:No i dont think thats rude at all.. Maybe he likes your hair and wants to use the shampoo you use.. I dont think he meant anything by it!
Reply:Guys don't know anything about hair. He was probably just trying to be nice.
Reply:It wasn't very tactful, but some people are just blunt about things. You already know it doesn't look good because it's fried, and that you hadn't freshly washed it even though you had a date.





If you don't take care of your appearance, others will tend to notice...although many will say nothing.





Get your hair cut, and wash it when you go out on dates. Even quite short hair is a better look than longer fried hair. It'll grow back. ☺
Reply:um not reallyi ask ppl that all the time
Reply:Yea you're a lil over sensetive..trust me there are alot of people with awful hair..and alot with fab hair...
Reply:I don't think it's rude, maybe they thoought it was nice hair or something
Reply:I'm guessing he is unaware of how much you DO know about hair, and thinks perhaps your shampoo did the damage.





You know your hair is fried, and he noticed. It was perhaps uncouthe of him to say it as he did, but I am sure he didn't mean to insult you.
Reply:LOL. I think you're overly sensitive about your hair. You didn't have to get offended by it..... because you know your hair look rough. He probably wanted to say something worse and eased it up a little bit to make it less obvious. I would have laughed and told him what happened to it and moved on.
Reply:I think he was just trying to make an effort to get to know you more. It may seem random, but if he likes you, he'll want to know everything, even the little things. He probably doesn't even know you consider your hair fried, try and relax. He seems like he was just wondering, it's ok, trust me, he would have commented on it casually if it had even piqued his interest [your hair being fried I mean] besides, I think he would understand if you explained you were growing it out for a while. Good luck with him =]
Reply:tell that a whole to shove off so yes very rude talk about your idiotic guys thats probly one of th worst thing to say to your date on his part
Reply:If you had great hair and he asked that, would the question be rude?





I think you're just insecure about your hair and he touched a topic you didn't wish to bring up.
Reply:no that doesn't sound rude. maybe he thinks you hair was nice or smelled good and wanted to know what product you use. i think you're overly sensitive and looking too much into it. best wishes
Reply:Overly sensitive to be blunt.





Guys don't really care what shampoo their dates use... in fact they probably rarely even know what shampoo they use themselves.





It was for the purpose of conversation, and perhaps your hair did look good to him.





The bottom line though, is that he didn't say anything at all that would indicate negativity, so it is more about how you feel about your hair that is getting to you.





On a side note: Perhaps the fact that he was interested in at touching your hair and making a comment, is a good indication that you're hair isn't as bad as you think.
Reply:Thats not rude......it was just a question!