What does it mean when a girl you like says i don't want to go out with you b/c i think of you as a brother

It means that she has a very close relationship with you. She thinks of you as a brother not in a sexual way. Dating could end up destroying your relationship. Is it really worth that?

What does it mean when a girl you like says i don't want to go out with you b/c i think of you as a brother
It means she doesn't like you romatically, but more as a close friend.
Reply:I am probably much older than you, but: I feel personally she is asking you 1, to rspect her advise as a person, and 2 maybe @ a later time things might shange 3 this may be meant to be a START of a GOOD FRIENDSHIP, wich are hard to find.Hopefully this will take you in the direction from this point, to accomplish all 3 points.Time has a way ofworking things in Life out for the best, as sometime it is not until later you see the results as they are to be. And there is not much can be accomplished in Life [ w/o RESPECT.]


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Reply:she like you dude,


but not like that.
Reply:It means she likes you, but doesn't like you "that way".
Reply:It means she has NO interest in you physically and she want you to stop bothering her.
Reply:It means you don't have a chance in hell
Reply:It means she is not attracted to you and you been placed in the friend bin, which can be difficult to get out of. My advice is to move on.
Reply:she's letting you down easy and doesnt think of you in that way sorry dude
Reply:it means she thinks u more of a person she could go to for advice on relation ships instead of having one with you
Reply:She couldn't very well date her brother, could she??





It just means that she doesn't think of you as "boyfriend material," but like someone she's known all of her life and doesn't want to ruin anything.
Reply:It means that you are and WILL NOT get any from her.
Reply:Stay away from that it never works out.....sorry
Reply:It means she's not attracted to you
Reply:She doesn't want you to hit it.
Reply:it means she likes you but doesnt love you... yet.





depending on how old or mature they are and how many previous relationships they have, it could be because they dont get what love is yet - in that case keep talking and doing what your doing and maybe eventually she will. If she does get what it is, then probably its a signal that she just wants to be friends.





try talking to her about it...
Reply:It means she wants to stay close friends... sorry buddy but you got shut down xD
Reply:she likes you just as a close friend
Reply:i guess she says you not mature enough
Reply:She loves you but she's not in love with you.
Reply:It probably means she is shallow. 9 times out of 10 they regret it later in life. Don't worry I have seen many girls get thier hearts broken and end up giving it a try. Do not give up. Maybe she will wake up some day. But don't just stick to her either, look around and view the opportunities.
Reply:Translation:


I dont want to go out with you, but I dont want to hurt your feelings by telling you I have no feelings for you. I want to set a boundary with you that I can change at a later date, but you will not, so I will call you a brother, and hope that keeps you at bay.





In the language of Shrek 1, she is telling you that you are not her "true love".





You should watch Anne of Green Gables. It can teach men to understand a little of what goes on inside women, but still it doesnt bore them to death. Great fathers watch this movie WITH their daughters.
Reply:it means exactly what she said, you're like a brother to her. you guys must be really good friends for her to feel that way. hang in there and maybe her feelings will change.
Reply:That's her way of turning you down nicely!
Reply:She's telling you she values your friendship and wants to keep even though she is not romantically interested in you. One always needs a good friend of both sex's , you are lucky to have that.
Reply:She's not interested and that's her polite way of saying it!
Reply:well think about this..would you want to date your sister?
Reply:She's not seeing you.
Reply:I dont mean to sound harsh - but 99% of the time .. it means they only look at you like a brother - mainly because they are not attracted to you. HAD she been attracted to you - TRUST me she would have said yes - no matter what.





Dont take it too serious - you cant be everyones type - just move on and find a girl who sees you as more of a boyfriend - rather than a "brother"
Reply:means, you lost it!


you lose out to some other guy...


hey at leats she didnt ask you to be her dad??


hahaha
Reply:That she really doesn't like you as more than a friend, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

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