I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I haven't had sex b/c I think women would laugh a my penis size.

I'm a freshman in college and I'm afraid of rejection. I don't think that I'm very attractive, I'm over weight , but I'm a good person with a good heart. I am also afraid of rejection so I have never asked anyone out or to have sex with me. It is kind of embarrassing. I also masturbate about 3 times a day. Is there any hope for me?

I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I haven't had sex b/c I think women would laugh a my penis size.
It's going to be real hard to lose your virginity (which seems to be what you want) if you never go on a date. Get up the confidence to ask girls out (what's the worst that could happen, right?) and go on some dates. There are people out there that like you for who you are. Find them and spend time with them, it can only help your confidence.


Get into activities and groups where you can meet more people with interests in common with you.


With the right person, your penis size will have no effect on how the sexual interaction goes. A woman that respects you and loves you for you will remind you that size does not matter, it's how you use your whole body and mind to make love to someone.


Also, um, 18 is not that old, so don't worry about it. Honestly, you're not even a quarter into your life, so don't even think about losing faith.


Masturbation is healthy and releases the same feel-good chemicals as other forms of exercise, so go ahead and make yourself feel as good as you can, as often as you want. You deserve it.
Reply:stay a virgin! Sex is over rated! shallow... unmeaningful (unless within marriage) Get through the college years and find yourself a nice girl and educate yourself on how to treat a woman respectfully. Not like discarded trash. Also the chicks out there that are readily available.... hmmmm.... not such a good pick... kind of fishy..... (errr)





Also work on your weight and find a girl like you (a virgin) Yes, there is much hope! Believe in yourself! Take this time to work on you. I know the boys out there won't tell you this kind of stuff.... My pleasure!
Reply:there is someone for everyone , now i don't want to make you mad but if you have a big bellie if you get rid of the hang over you penis would be longer
Reply:Sure there is. There are a lot of fish in the sea. But you have to have confidence.
Reply:yes
Reply:Like they say :


As long as the railroad track is there,a train will pass by soon.


You'll meet someone right for you.
Reply:yes you will find some one for you but you have to look for her she will not come to you
Reply:yes there is. for one stop masturbating so damn much youll put your eye out and grow hair on your palms%26gt;%26lt; lol jk. but no just dress according to your weight. wear clothes that fit. stuff thats to baggy or to slim will ,make you look bigger than you are. then just have a personality. try to work out at least an hour a day( not that hard) because you will want to have some stamina to make sure you can please your other once you get them in bed. also if you have a small penis, just use other methods( you know wha ti mean) first. once a girl is really on i seriously doubt she will notice.
Reply:Yes.





However, you need to get over your fear of rejection, like post haste. Everyone has been rejected before over something...you won't be the first one. Also, if you really are a good guy with a good heart then you should be able to find someone. Do not set your limits on one person and then if you they do reject you decide to just stop trying. A lot of women are very shallow, especially freshmen girls.





You will find someone who is willing to accept you for you and that'll be that. If you're overweight and feel that that is something that makes you feat rejection...work out and work on yourself.





Before you even attempt to go for a girl, make sure you are confident about yourself otherwise, every little, tiny, insignificant act that goes wrong will blow up in your mind and you might not be able to handle it.





Good luck!
Reply:yeah man...just get to a gym and tone up or just go running. A little confidence goes a long way too.
Reply:just to let you know, i took a human sexuality and anatomy class, the regular size of a penis is 3 inches and when it's erect it's 6 inches. if you're between those measurements then you're fine.
Reply:Hi,


It is good that you are worried . Need not to worry about girl's liking they do not care for the size, they care for the overall satisfaction during the sex.





There is a common misconception that the size of the penis is related to the sexual satisfaction. There is no truth in this. The size of the penis can be very variable. It is not the length or the thickness of the penis that is of material significance. The vaginal canal is about 9 cm long and only the outer one third of it has sensations. The inner six cm have almost no sensation at all. Thus even if the penis is 3 cm long after erection, it is enough for sexual satisfaction. in your case your penis size is 10 cms.Relax! do not feel shy or under-confident about this issue. You will have no problems in your sexual life on account of your penile size.


Penis enlargement is possible if you want .


Feel free to contact.


Enjoy Life.
Reply:Don't be with anyone for reasons of the flesh, you are more than you think, and your mate should love you for what kind of man you are, some people have to deal with being in a wheelchair or other things like that, don't let society destroy your self esteem, and if any problem in life seems to have no answers read the Bible and what Jesus had to say- dude truth and purpose in life take on a whole new meaning....
Reply:Dont listen to some of these mean people on here. but being a girl, i'll tell you we like guys with confidence! we want to be assured that if we date someone (invest time/money/emotion/whatever) that it will be worth it.





somethings you may want to try is, walk upright and straight. I know this sounds dumb but "pretend" to be proud, and people will take notice! also, SMILE. Even at yourself. Its proven that if you look in a mirror and smile, you'll be in a better mood. So pass the happiness around! Smile at a stranger and be proud to be who you are!





And the whole masturbating thing? Its natural. =)
Reply:I'm from a different culture...let me just tell you something, here in our part of the world virginity is sacred same with sex, it is something that should be shared under sacrament of marriage. Since you said that you are a person with a good heart, work out with your confidence, appreciate yourself before trying to hard to make other people appreciate you. If in your culture it is allowed to have sex outside marriage, be sure that you can face its consequences before asking somebody to have sex with you. You should be aware of the responsiblities associated with it.





Accept yourself: meaning your assets and your weaknesses..every part of you..
Reply:Everyone has their flaws. The right woman will come along. She may be shy and have some of the same problems and you may be the perfect match for her. The best thing you can do is be outgoing and the good hearted person that you are. People will view you as a beautiful person for that reason alone. Remember beauty is only skin deep. One can be the most beautiful person in the world , but if you are obnoxious and ill tempered, no one will see them for the beautiful person that they are either!


You are young and now would also be a good time to work on losing some weight. Not only for being more attractive, but for health issues later in life. It seems your hand is getting a work out but your legs need to be too:) Go for some long walks and eat healthier. Don't worry about Mr. Penis, they come in all sizes and accomodate all shapes:) I was more attracted to my husband's carisma than lack of penis size. There are other ways of satisfying a woman!
Reply:if you think loosing virginity is that damn important...just go down to the street and find yourself one pretty whore....


it will cost you only around 50-100 bucks and you will loose all your pride..


man...just take time-out..go to the gym...work the hell out.. after 6 months...you will be better.. believe me
Reply:of course there is hope


just do things to increase your chances


get yourself in shape, it will boost your confidence. do it while you are still young, it only gets harder as you get older.


and don't wack it so much, it will kill your drive to score with a girl.


and most importantly, believe in yourself!!!
Reply:No hope at all.
Reply:Just die and hope for reincarnation.